Helpful Resources
Here are suggested readings along with resources and information. Cauley Counseling Services does not endorse nor is liable for any of the services rendered by the referral organizations, as they should be used with caution. I hope you find them helpful.
Recommended books
Self-Help
Boundaries Updated and Expanded Edition: When to Say Yes, How to Say No To Take Control of Your Life by Henry Cloud and John Townsend
Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes are High, Third Edition by Joseph Grenny
Emotional Intelligence 2.0 by Travis Bradberry, Jean Greaves
Homecoming: Overcoming Fear and Trauma To Reclaim Your Whole, Authentic Self by Thema Bryant Ph.D.
Just Heal, Bro: A Journal by Jay Barnett
Rhythms of Renewal: Trading Stress and Anxiety for a Life of Peace and Purpose by Rebekah Lyons
Strengths-Based Leadership: Great Leaders, Teams, and Why People Follow by Tom Rath and Barry Conchie
The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom by Don Miguel Ruiz
Relationships
The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman
Boundaries in Marriage: Understanding the Choices That Make or Break Loving Relationships by Henry Cloud and John Townsend
Boundaries in Dating: How Healthy Choices Grow Healthy Relationships by Henry Cloud and John Townsend
Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love by John Gottman Ph.D., Julie Schwartz Gottman Ph.D.
Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: The Classic Guide to Understanding the Opposite Sex Part of a practical guide for improving communication and getting what you want in your relationships by John Gray
Single, Married, Separated, and Life after Divorce by Myles Munroe
Parenting
Boundaries with Kids: How Healthy Choices Grow Healthy Children Paperback by Henry Cloud, John Townsend
Helping Your Anxious Child: A Step-by-Step Guide for Parents by Ronald Rapee Ph.D., Ann Wignall D Psych, Susan Spence Ph.D., Heidi Lyneham Ph.D., Vanessa Cobham Ph.D.
What Great Parents Do: 75 Simple Strategies for Raising Kids Who Thrive by Erica Reische
Spirituality
Believe Bigger: Discover the Path to Your Life Purpose by Marshawn Evans Daniels
100 Days of Believing Bigger: Devotional Journal by Marshawn Evans Daniels
The Purpose Driven Life: What on Earth Am I Here For? by Rick Warren
Mindfulness and Meditation
The Unapologetic Guide to Black Mental Health: Navigate an Unequal System, Learn Tools for Emotional Wellness, and Get the Help You Deserve by Rheeda Walker Ph.D. and Na'im Akbar Ph.D.
Success Through Stillness: Meditation Made Simple by Russell Simmons and Chris Morrow
Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself by Dr. Kristin Neff
support hotlines and websites
National Helpline or call (800) 622-4357
Suicide & Crisis Prevention or Call/Text 988 to the suicide and crisis lifeline 24/7.
Domestic Violence or call (800) 799-7233
Self-help support group for family and friends of problem drinkers or alcoholics (888) 425-2666
Crisis intervention for elderly and dependent adult abuse (877) 477-2666
Child Protective Services - Crisis intervention for child abuse