Helpful Resources

Here are suggested readings along with resources and information. Cauley Counseling Services does not endorse nor is liable for any of the services rendered by the referral organizations, as they should be used with caution. I hope you find them helpful.

Recommended books

Self-Help

  • Boundaries Updated and Expanded Edition: When to Say Yes, How to Say No To Take Control of Your Life by Henry Cloud and John Townsend

  • Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes are High, Third Edition by Joseph Grenny

  • Emotional Intelligence 2.0 by Travis Bradberry, Jean Greaves

  • Homecoming: Overcoming Fear and Trauma To Reclaim Your Whole, Authentic Self by Thema Bryant Ph.D.

  • Just Heal, Bro: A Journal by Jay Barnett

  • Rhythms of Renewal: Trading Stress and Anxiety for a Life of Peace and Purpose by Rebekah Lyons

  • Strengths-Based Leadership: Great Leaders, Teams, and Why People Follow by Tom Rath and Barry Conchie

  • The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom by Don Miguel Ruiz

Relationships

  • The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman

  • Boundaries in Marriage: Understanding the Choices That Make or Break Loving Relationships by Henry Cloud and John Townsend

  • Boundaries in Dating: How Healthy Choices Grow Healthy Relationships by Henry Cloud and John Townsend

  • Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love by John Gottman Ph.D., Julie Schwartz Gottman Ph.D.

  • Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: The Classic Guide to Understanding the Opposite Sex Part of a practical guide for improving communication and getting what you want in your relationships by John Gray

  • Single, Married, Separated, and Life after Divorce by Myles Munroe

Parenting

  • Boundaries with Kids: How Healthy Choices Grow Healthy Children Paperback by Henry Cloud, John Townsend

  • Helping Your Anxious Child: A Step-by-Step Guide for Parents by Ronald Rapee Ph.D., Ann Wignall D Psych, Susan Spence Ph.D., Heidi Lyneham Ph.D., Vanessa Cobham Ph.D.

  • What Great Parents Do: 75 Simple Strategies for Raising Kids Who Thrive by Erica Reische

Spirituality

  • Believe Bigger: Discover the Path to Your Life Purpose by Marshawn Evans Daniels

  • 100 Days of Believing Bigger: Devotional Journal by Marshawn Evans Daniels

  • The Purpose Driven Life: What on Earth Am I Here For? by Rick Warren

Mindfulness and Meditation

  • The Unapologetic Guide to Black Mental Health: Navigate an Unequal System, Learn Tools for Emotional Wellness, and Get the Help You Deserve by Rheeda Walker Ph.D. and Na'im Akbar Ph.D.

  • Success Through Stillness: Meditation Made Simple by Russell Simmons and Chris Morrow

  • Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself by Dr. Kristin Neff

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